If you are a regular reader of Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page, you’ve definitely seen a lot of stories about the drama that goes on around weddings.
And today we have another one for you!
Read on to see if you think this guy is out of line…
AITA for not wanting to go to my brother’s wedding because my stepson isn’t invited?
“I (m28) have been with my fiancee (f30) for a year and a half. I have a stepson (4) that I adore and treat as my own.
My older brother’s wedding is soon. I was intending on going but after I found out that my stepson was not invited, we started having issues. My brother explained that it’s the nature of the wedding they chose which is child free but my fiancee was upset that this rule was forced on family as well.
She got into arguments with my brother and his fiancee and ended up deciding to not go to the wedding. As a result I called my brother and told I no longer want to come after what happened. He began arguing saying my fiancee is the one being unreasonable and now has “convinced” me to miss his wedding.
I told him that this is just me supporting my family after the way he and his fiancee treated them. His fiancee said they don’t owe us anything and that this is a wedding rule that applied to everyone. I said “fine then I’m not coming”.
My brother is p**sed my parents are calling me unreasonable for being willing to miss my only sibling’s wedding and basically let a woman I’ve only known for a year an half drive a wedge between us. They said if I go through with this then I might lose my brother, who’s my support and comfort forever, and so much damage and hurt will come out of this.
I stopped responding to them but members of extended family are saying that me and my fiancee are creating the problem trying to control my brother’s wedding.”
Here’s what Reddit users said about this.
One person said he’s an a**hole and now his brother knows…
Another individual also said he’s an a**hole and that they don’t understand his logic.
And this Reddit user broke it down and said this guy is definitely the a**hole.
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