Well, this is a weird one…
I can’t say I’ve ever read a story on Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page quite like this one…
But there’s a first time for everything!
Let’s take a look and see what happened.
AITA for asking my husband to not be near our daughter during her physical therapy?
“I (42f) have 3 kids (18f, 16m,14f) with my husband (45m).
My husband has always been the disciplinarian and tends to yell and scream insults a lot and get mad quite easily, and our kids don’t have the best relationship with him due to this. Our youngest was in a car accident, and experienced a spinal cord injury and is currently going through physical therapy, and some surgeries.
She is doing some practice at home and I don’t want my husband there a lot when she’s going trough the therapy, or at the hospital picking her up and dropping her off for surgery, as he may instinctively get mad at her messing something up or him being there may make her feel worried that he’s going to get mad. She has also asked me to try and get him to not be there.
I confronted him and told him that because he wants to help them he may get mad easily and upset her when she needs to be as positive as possible, and knowing him he may worry about grades and let that blind him from worrying about her. He said that he would be there and that as a father he had the right to get mad when his children make mistakes.
I told him that she really needed support during this time and that knowing he tends to be very disciplinary I would not be letting him near her during this time. He told me that there was nothing stopping him and I said that I would divorce him if he acted the same way.
He told me I was being a f**king psycho and I am starting to think that he is right and maybe I am overreacting in not letting him be there during this time.
Take a look at what Reddit users said about this.
This person said this woman is indeed the a**hole because she’s made her kids deal with this guy for so long.
And another Reddit user agreed and said she needs to get out of this situation.
This individual said this woman is NTA but agreed that she needs to leave this guy ASAP.
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