Depending on who you’re dealing with, participating in a wedding can either be a lot of fun or a total nightmare.
Luckily, I’ve only been on the good side when I’ve been involved in weddings, but I think I might be the exception based on the horror stories I’ve heard…
Take a look at these tweets from men and women who had a lot to say about the weddings they took part in.
1. Don’t do that.
You’re going to upset someone.
Me giving a speech at my friends wedding: Websters dictionary would define “fergalicious” as “makes the boys go loco”
— Sarah Hagi (@KindaHagi) December 5, 2021
2. It sure is!
You should only do it once every five years.
Being a groomsman is expensive AF like I might gotta decline my next groomsman offer ?
— Kyrie Curving (@1YungLuver) July 29, 2021
3. Whatever it takes.
But she owes you one.
My maid of honor duties include laying on top of the bride like a human weighted blanket to reduce stress pic.twitter.com/nUQKEbMJsv
— Nervous Eyes Bennett (@AlannaBennett) August 30, 2018
4. It’s ridiculous.
Seems pretty excessive.
Why is being a maid of honor the most expensive thing I’ve done this year, the year that I also bought a whole ass car
— top 0.5% bo burnham stan (@snobison) August 3, 2020
5. It’s a real thing.
No doubt about it.
My friend is having her wedding this Saturday and I’m her maid of honor and let me tell ya, Bridezilla is not just a story. ?
— ??? (كاس) (@cultivated_gem) November 24, 2020
6. Uh oh…
Try to keep her under control.
Maid of honor duties include being stressed out when the bride is ??
— Ceciliaa ✨ (@Ortizz05) February 27, 2022
7. A lot of money.
It better be fun!
Did y’all know that being a bridesmaid is expensive as hell? I sure didn’t—-but at least it’s for love??! ?
— Cozy P (@PaigePanache) September 15, 2021
8. This is no fun!
But you can’t back out at this point…
To some women being a bridesmaid is an “honor” but to me it’s a “nightmare”
— Courtney James (@kneejo15) September 4, 2013
9. I’d walk out.
I think one of my worst nightmares is being a bridesmaid for one of my friends and them wanting to do a surprise choreographed dance
— Krista (@KJenz7) April 3, 2018
10. You kind of have to do it.
Sorry, just the way it is…
Is there a polite way to decline being a bridesmaid or am I absolutely doomed to experience my personal nightmare
— dinah (@mondeparfait) February 9, 2021
11. Maybe in the top three.
Just power through it!
Being a bridesmaid gotta be in the top 5 most stressful jobs
— Ayonna (@Ayyy_nana) March 2, 2022
12. You’re on a timeline.
Make sure you don’t get ripped off!
Being a bridesmaid is expensive.
I’ll be mad if I spend thousands on someone else’s wedding buying a dress I don’t care for just for you to get divorced. I need a refund if the marriage doesn’t last at least 6 years.
— Captain Cuddles ??✈️ (@katekirah) March 6, 2022
Now it’s your turn!
In the comments, tell us about your worst wedding experiences.
We’d love to hear from you!