A lot of us who understand social cues and the like get that there are times when laughter just isn’t the right response.

Which doesn’t mean that our fickle brains and twisted senses of humor don’t want to make us laugh, and hence the struggle ensues – one we win sometimes, and lose sometimes, but at least we live to fight another day.

These things didn’t happen to you, though, so feel free to crack up at will.

1. Everyone is silently panicking.

My first time in Houston, a very large lady was going up a full escalator. Near the top, she suddenly “fell” into a low sitting position as if her legs gave in.

She didn’t fall down the steps or anything, she was just stationary (no longer moving up with the escalator).

Her size prevented anyone from passing around her so everyone behind her began to walk backwards to not crash into her, some picking up their luggage.

2. A forever laugh.

My mother-in-law was basically awful to me early in our relationship. Called me names, made comments about my family, made comments about my upbringing in a trailer home. Really cool. I remember always trying to be the better person. Anyway, there was a big gathering of my wife’s family.

My MIL was “holding court” and made a few shots at me at the dinner. She left to get something out of the kitchen at some point. On her return, someone had closed the screen door, and she walked right into it. Mid stride, mid sentence. She made a hilarious noise. I almost guffawed, but my wife clenched my knee.

I laughed on the inside, and pictured it whenever I needed a pick-me-up from her narcissistic victimhood. We are estranged from her now. Big shock.

3. That didn’t go as planned.

Our class salutatorian started her speech with “today we are here for our graduated cylinders – I mean our graduation” and went “hehe” and at the time that she chuckled at her own joke, which definitely was a joke, I, a lone patron of comedy in a convention center of thousands, who was already on thin ice, let out a very audible laugh and “WOO” and the monitor, which was based on sound, cut to me as I laughed and caught the woo.

I genuinely found it funny and could not stop laughing until well after the ceremony finished

4. Not the right moment.

I was watching hunger games in theaters and the Rue death scene caused a reaction from the person behind me that left me laughing so hard I thought the people who didn’t hear her would think I was a horrible person.

Right when the spear hits her I heard this “O DAMN” from behind me like the most stereotypical dumb reaction gif sound effect of a dude getting kicked in the nads. It clashed with the scene so much and was the only time the person ever spoke it just cracked me up

5. How did you do it??

I’ve watched some children run into glass doors, but I couldn’t laugh I had to be “nice”

As a parent, I hold it back long enough to see that they’re ok (not bloody, broken, etc.) then start laughing.

It seems to make them laugh off small pains. They see that other people are laughing, and they’re less likely to cry for attention.

6. For a whole month.

When I was a kid with my mom and 15 families and 30-40 kids standing in a parking lot.

Mom is trying to get everyone organized by grade and this one kid that was in the year below me was tearing around jumping into people screaming and being a general terror.

Mom turns to me and says, “Can you get him to stop?”. Kid is running straight at me, so I step to the side and sweep his legs clear out from under him as he jumps.

This wasn’t a little trip, the kid hit the pavement/curb so hard both legs flew folded over backwards and almost kicked himself in the back of the head from the momentum.

My mom screams and I knew I screwed up instantly and turned only to see the kids own mother just about folding herself over to keep from laughing. I just said, “What, he stopped now.” Poor kid had to get stitches and I felt terrible about it for like a month.

7.  Not a ghost.

The CD started skipping at my stepmom’s funeral.

Everyone thought it was a sign from her but it was just a bad CD.

8. Laugh and die, kid.

A teacher in middle school tore me apart for being an a$shole in his class because I was being an a$shole. As he finished, he kicked his legs back to look smug, etc. and flipped his chair over.

He shot up so quickly with such a red face that I thought if I made a peep he would probably kill me. I was dying on the inside.

9. Not a spoiler.

Something similar happened when I went to see Hamilton. When he (spoiler!) gets shot by Burr and dies, this girl in front of me audibly gasped and said “oh, no!”

I had no idea the ending was a mystery to people so I was chortling while Alexander was dying.

10. Definitely going to hell.

So one time, me and my class were watching a play where all the actors were both blind and deaf.

At one point, they were walking on the stage with no one to guide them and one of them fell off the stage.

11. Bless.

When my aunt died I was heartbroken, I loved her very very much. She was in a coma and we had a sort of living wake for her.

At her funeral though, I don’t know I must’ve been all cried out or something.

True to her style though, she played the godd*mn Collingwood theme song as the coffin left and I lost my shit. I pretended to sob down the back of the church, but I was pissing myself laughing.

12. Everybody’s a comedian.

I was getting a passport photo taken at a Walgreens. Nice, older man grabs the camera and has me stand in front of the white backdrop and says earnestly “No smiling. The passport people hate their lives so no one can look happy.”

Because that totally helped me keep a straight face lol

13. Couldn’t do it again if he tried.

Watched a kid knock himself out with a rifle butt.

Background: High school JROTC. One of the drill team cadets was trying to learn a spin trick with an M-1 Garand. He got it once, shouted, “Hey, watch this!” And spun it again. Clocked himself in the temple and it was lights out.

I couldn’t laugh because I was the most senior cadet on deck, and had to take care of his sorry ass.

14. Art is in the eye of the beholder.

It was a small art gallery opening. The lady who owned it was a friend of my mothers so we were invited (my mother, me (~16yo) and my brother) to come to the very fancy “high culture” festivities.

She had arranged some light entertainment in the form of a interpretive dancer… This podgy middle aged lady in flowy fabrics with a scarf was flying around the small lawn, waving her scarf and arms about randomly and occasionally rolling about on the ground. I think it was accompanied by enya music.

I could barely breathe and had to bit my tongue super hard and absolutely make sure I did not look at my mother or brother or we would have all died of laughter.

15. Always ridiculous.

In boot camp the drill instructors are constantly trying to get you to break your bearing; get you to show emotion or like you’re being affected by what’s going on around you.

Turns out one of the best ways to do this is to be violently funny people who constantly pepper the most creative insults into their tirades, and occasionally they venture into pure lunacy.

So during range week, when we were in the pits pulling targets, one of the recruits was f*cking around, not taking things very seriously, so our heavy informed him that if he wasn’t going to be serious, he was going to skip up and down the line of targets, shouting a very specific phrase- ‘Fire the candy cannons! Coat the town with marshmallows!’

Said recruit was, predictably, not very enthusiastic about being forced to do this, and he half-heartedly mumbled while he was moving down the line.

Our heavy was displeased with this performance, and exhorted him to improve thusly: “No! With feeling! Like this! Fire the candy cannons, coat the town with marshmallows!”, with such a savage mocking of the fake British accent a lot of theater kids pick up that it almost had to be informed by personal experience.

Ridiculous then, ridiculous now, probably ridiculous on my deathbed.

16. I would think not.

I was once at a food and drink event that was put on by a very famous and eccentric German chef. When it was over he invited my friend and I back to his farm for an after party. His farm famously hosts chefs from all over the world who live with him and learn from him, so as a young chef this was a huge honour.

My friend and I had had quite a few cocktails and when it was time for the famous chef to give us directions he started drawing a map with all kinds of windy dirt roads. He kept saying “and this road is windy windy windy…windy windy windy” in his thick German accent while scribbling all over the page, and it just kept going to the point that my friend and I were visibly holding back tears of laughter.

We ended up having an amazing time at the farm but I’m 100% positive the chef did not like us at all after we laughed in his face while he tried to give us directions.

17. A friendship down in flames.

I went to a holy rollers church with my friend in middle school. (I had no idea her church would be like this) She had an emotional breakdown at the end of mass and we went to the bathrooms so she could cry, then we started walking back into the worship center where her mom (big woman) was, and some other people were still praying.

I hear someone shouting, which wasn’t hard to find at this church, as we get closer to the front and it’s her mom, speaking in tongues. It fr sounded like a Harry potter spell chanted over and over again

Her hands were flailing in the air and she eventually fell over to her right side and crushed a skinny guy next to her. I had to stifle my laughter so bad I almost peed.

Later i told my friend that i was sorry her mom fell over in church and she said, “she didn’t fall, she was pushed” I was confused bc I KNOW I saw her fall. She looked me dead in the face and said “she was pushed by the holy spirit.”

I threw my head back laughing and me and her weren’t very good friends after that

18. A comedy of errors.

We were 16 and a friend’s birthday party. 4 in the morning the 8 of us decide to go to the nearby elementary school to run around the roof. Two of the boys tipped over a portopotty. On the walk home the cops roll up and make us return to the school to make sure we didn’t do any more damage.

As we were walking into the front gate one of the officers had climbed over a fence to look around. As he was climbing back over his night stick got caught in the fence and he fell on his ass next to all of us.

I’m surprised no one but through their lip trying not to laugh. As an added bonus my friend’s mom was so pissed at us when she picked us up from the school that she wasn’t paying attention and backed up into one of the cop cars.

19. This is superhuman.

Rescued a car crash survivor. His land-rover left the road and careened down a very steep hill. Driver was ejected some 30m from the road and the car rolled another 80m. Lucky dude. Would definitely have died if he stayed in the car.

Anyway. We get to him lying there on the hillside. Thick bush and loose rocks everywhere. Beautiful sea view too, I might add. He’s unconscious, some serious scrapes and bruises. And a head injury. Serious but otherwise stable condition.

As we were strapping him into the rescue basket for winching out, I straighten his shirt. In bold lime green letters is written “I look sexier when I’m in the bush.”

Me and my colleagues didn’t laugh I’m proud to say. Closest thing to it was when I showed the winch operator the shirt, he simply said “that’s f*cking funny.”

It was f*cking funny.

20. I wouldn’t have been able to manage.

My step Dad was an Italian from Manhattan. He had the classic Italian mobster accent. We all live in Minnesota, born and raised. So his accent was definitely different from what we’re used to.

My brother loved to playfully make fun of him by imitating him by saying classic Italian mobster exclamations along with the hand mannerisms. Stepdad was a laid back guy and found it funny and the banter between those two was very light hearted.

So, one day, we were having a small get together at our house with my mom, stepdad, my brother and a few friends. We were all hanging out outside when my 4 year old daughter excited started saying “Uncle Pauly, Uncle Pauly! Watch this!”

As everyone watched, she went over to a peice of dog poop, pointed at it by shaking her open palmed hands, and exclaimed in the most perfect Italian Mobster accent “What the f*ck is thiiiis?!” She even did the head bob perfectly.

We all stifled laughter.

21. He was trying to make people laugh.

I had a high school teacher who was a very moody and sarcastic person. One day, he took a full size poster board, took a black sharpie, and wrote TICKING TIME BOMB, then hung it around his neck

He wore it all day. No one was supposed to laugh cuz that could set off the bomb. Also, in his class one day, he asked a question in class.

One of the big jocks hurriedly answered by saying Well, I read that blah blah. This teacher looked at him and said YOU READ?

22. The only way to handle it.

Not me but a teacher I had in high school. Very serious man, he wasn’t mean but kept things orderly. I don’t even recall what they said but one of the students told a very dirty joke in the class.

The teacher calmly stands up from his desk, walks out the classroom door, shuts it, and we hear him just belly laughing the hallway. He collects himself, walks back in, sits back down, and continues class like nothing happened

23. At least it didn’t last.

My stepdaughter was learning to read and at the grocery store she commented that chicken the food and chicken the animal were spelled the same, isn’t that funny?

Told her that this is because they are the same thing, chicken (food) was dead chicken (animal).

Her mom was furious at me because her daughter didn’t want to eat chicken after learning that… For about half a day.

I can’t decide if I’m looking forward to or dreading the next time this happens to me.

Tell us your best “couldn’t laugh” story down in the comments!