And this story of getting bullied has an interesting twist…which you’ll find out about when you keep on reading.
A person opened up on Reddit’s “Am I the *sshole” forum to share their story and ask for feedback.
Let’s take a look.
AITA for I telling my childhood bully (who is MtF transgender) that she will always be the “boy who bullied me”?
“When I was a in middle school, I was viciously bullied by this boy, who I’ll call Z. He spread rumors about me, called me stupid and useless every chance he got, and made school a living hell.
It’s been 12 years, and Z has since come out as MtF transgender. She messaged me over social media and asked to meet up. We went out for coffee, where she apologized for bullying me. It was along the lines of, “I’m sorry for being mean. I was young, and I was struggling with my gender identity.”
I thanked her for her apology. When she asked if she was forgiven, and I tried to avoid answering. I am still not over what she did to me. What Z did to me impacted me greatly, as I was a impressionable young girl. I struggled with self esteem for years afterwards.
Z started getting defensive. She told me that I was being petty and that I should forgive her. I told her, “Why? You will always be the boy that bullied me. An apology won’t change that.”
She got really offended when I said the word boy, and said that I was misgendering her. She called me a petty, transphobic, vindictive, and ignorant, then stormed out.
Here’s what Reddit users had to say about this situation.
This person said that it’s the memories that count, not what gender the individual is now.
And here’s a one-liner that people should keep in mind.
Take a look.
Another person made a good point. You don’t have to forgive people if you don’t want to. That’s completely up to each person.
A reader made a great point and argued that the bully is STILL bullying the writer now through these actions.
Take a look at what they had to say.
And another Reddit user had a very similar story to tell.
And they also chimed in about how the writer of this article has done nothing wrong.
And here’s a hot take.
This person said that “being transgender is seen as an excuse for anything and everything…”
Check out the rest of their thoughts below.
What are your thoughts about this situation?
Was this person in the wrong? Or were they totally justified in their actions?
Talk to us in the comments and let us know what you think. Thanks in advance!