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From the outside, being a stay-at-home mom looks like it would be a laid-back, relaxed time. A piece of cake, some might even say. Well, based on this eye-opening post from a mom who lives this life, I think a lot of people would be surprised at how difficult and lonely it can be for some women.

Read on to learn more from a woman who opened her heart about her feelings on this important issue.

This post was submitted to Love What Matters by a woman named Caitlin Fladager.

“I remember when I was nineteen and just had my daughter. People were always asking when I planned to go back to work.

When I told them I was a stay at home mom, and planned to be for quite a few years, they would always go on to say how lucky I was. Or how I should be so appreciative for that opportunity. But all I could think in my mind was, ‘Then why do I feel so fucking lonely all the time?’

While I am very grateful I have been able to be a stay at home mom for the past four years, it’s also been one of the hardest times of my life. ⁣

My anxiety and depression can make me a shitty friend, but I’m not sorry. For as long as I can remember, I have always…

Posted by Caitlin Fladager on Friday, November 15, 2019

People always talk about the upside of it. Spending more time with your kids, getting to witness their first milestones, and all of that stuff. But what no one prepared me for, was the downside and mental health struggles that come with that. ⁣

Nobody tells you about how much you will lose your patience. ⁣

Nobody tells you that you won’t leave the house sometimes for days. ⁣

Nobody tells you how hard it is asking for help when you need it. ⁣

Nobody tells you it’s not easy. It’s mentally draining. ⁣

I yelled at my kids today, way more than I would have liked to. I’m always told “speak to your kids how you want them…

Posted by Caitlin Fladager on Saturday, November 23, 2019

Nobody tells you that no matter how many hours are in a day, you still won’t feel like you have done enough. ⁣⁣

Nobody tells you how draining being stuck in the same routine, everyday, is. The same pile of dishes, the same pile of laundry, the same toys lying all over the floor. ⁣

Yes, I am grateful I am able to stay home with my kids. But that doesn’t mean I can’t talk about how hard it is. ⁣

You are not alone. ⁣

We all struggle to find ‘me’ time. We all struggle asking for help. We all struggle with feeling isolated. ⁣

Being a stay at home mom is f*cking lonely.”

I remember when I was nineteen, and just had my daughter. People were always asking when I planned to go back to work….

Posted by Caitlin Fladager on Monday, October 28, 2019

Okay, all the stay-at-home moms out there… we need your feedback.

Does this describe your experience? Are you really lonely? Or maybe you feel just the opposite?

Please share your thoughts with us in the comments.