The controversy over the term “love” is a real thing. What do I mean? Like who you should date. Debatable talk continues as people judge others. This includes couples with different gender identities or sexuality. And even dating someone in your “pedigree”. Come on. Does love really have to be that difficult? Apparently, some can’t get over what other people do.
Anyway, a Twitter user opened up the discussion recently with a pic of Kim Kardashian and the descriptin: “unpopular opinion: relationship edition” And of course Twitter erupted. Everyone has an unpopular opinion of dating. Amirite?
https://twitter.com/cutecherrybitch/status/1134972192779694080
While some of these may not surprise you, others may have the hair on your neck stand up. Ready? Here goes.
10. Don’t rely on your partner for happiness.
Relying on your partner to make you happy will eventually ruin your relationship. They are not meant to be the source of happiness in your life. You yourself are. https://t.co/IbrA87wFbe
— Ji (@wajihaaliawan) June 7, 2019
9. Dating should result in marriage
i literally never will understand dating just for the heck of it? like you date a person seeing no future and knowing you'll break up eventually.
— mrs. sabrina carpenter (@ria_lidad) June 2, 2019
8. Dating should never result in marriage
The “dating to marry” mindset can often lead to settling, and is overall just a toxic way to go about dating, ok that’s all thank u gbye https://t.co/tv6UfRAVmA
— elleigh (@elleighgray) June 8, 2019
7. Swinger couples beware
Polyamory is not the fix to your toxic behavior in monogamous relationships. https://t.co/usuHQsVMqk
— Yvee but like Yves (@YveeOduor) June 7, 2019
6. Dating can be cheap. It’s all about the person, really.
It’s okay if your partner isn’t all about romance and flowers and chocolate and teddy bears and road trips and expensive gifts
— Rachel (@_rachelsteph) June 2, 2019
5. Give your heart a break
Don’t jump into a new relationship if you’ve not yet completely healed from the previous one…..you’ll project all your hurt and insecurities into the new one and your partner will end up being a victim of the issues you refused to deal with
— Kami💕 (@ka_kamikazi) June 4, 2019
4. Save your phone battery. Chill.
https://twitter.com/busted_bratz/status/1135256649969623042
3. Don’t be a creeper. Trust is the basis of a successful relationship.
Going through each other’s phone is not healthy https://t.co/YXNGssV2LR
— Dushxme_ (@cecee3xo) June 3, 2019
2. Live your life!
Don’t wait 6 hours for a text and get depressed, distract yourself for the time being
— MehhMehh (@Mehhlone) June 2, 2019
1. So they’re saying I still a chance?
I don’t think people actually have soul mates. You meet someone you have a connection with and the outcome depends on how much you’re willing to put in. There are thousands and thousands of potential people who can make you feel the same no matter how much you love your partner.
— awadi bumba (@calypso_getaway) June 3, 2019
Regardless of disagreeing with these posts, love isn’t mean to divide us.
It’s meant to bring us together.
#truth
