You know things are pretty ugly in a relationship when someone leaves their significant other behind anywhere, let alone a party.

But that’s the situation we’re dealing with here in this story from Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page.

Let’s dive in and see what happened between these two lovebirds…

AITA for leaving my boyfriend stranded at a party for making a ‘joke’?

“I (19F) have been with my boyfriend (25M) for about 6 months. We don’t live together, but I spend a lot of my time at his place.

A week ago or so I was feeling quite sick. Not wanting to drive home, I spend the night at his place. He woke me up at about 5 am, and to my great embarrassment, I had wet the bed. I helped him clean up the best I could. I had a temp of about 103.8 F and he took me to the hospital, they kept me overnight.

A few days later when I saw him again I apologised for what happened. He told me it’s alright, and that he got me a gift. He pulled out a package of adult diapers and threw them at me. I told him that I didn’t think it was very funny and explained that I was embarrassed, but he thought it was hilarious. I decided to let it go and talk about it later.

We went to a party that night (not really a ‘party’, us and 6 other friends), about an hour away. I drove, since he doesn’t have a car.

After he had a few beers he started loudly telling them what had happened, ‘forgetting’ to mention that I was sick and had a high fever, just the part of me wetting the bed and him buying the diapers. He encouraged my friends to joke about it, and after trying to explain but being talked over or laughed at, I left and went home.

My boyfriend is obviously quite upset I left without him, I just didn’t want to be stuck in a car with him for an hour. He sent me several texts since then, most of which are calling me too sensitive and ‘not able to take a joke’. Some of my friends agree with him.


And here’s what Reddit users had to say.

One person said that she needs to dump this guy ASAP and get rid of those friends, too.

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And another reader said that the boyfriend is straight-up horrible.

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And this Reddit user said that the boyfriend and the friends displayed vile behavior all around.

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