I’ve definitely been to a wedding or two in my life where I dreaded running into people from my past.
But what happens when someone who you are legitimately scared of is supposed to attend your BEST FRIEND’S wedding?
A Reddit user asked readers if she’s being an a**hole because she doesn’t want to go to her BFF’s wedding because of someone from her past.
Let’s take a look.
AITA for not attending my BFF of over 30 yrs wedding because she invited my stalker?
“First time posting but I need to know.
My (43F), BFF (43F) is getting married. She asked me to be in the wedding. I knew her future hubby knew my stalker – Kevin (she previous mentioned they serve on a committee together and were friendly) and asked if He was invited. She said yes, but it has been so long I should just forget it. Her future hubby has no real friends and needs guests on his side.
I informed her it has been over 20years and Kevin (my stalker/43M) still tries to reach out on FB and find me. He is married with kids but still tries to harass me! I have nine or so abandoned accounts. I moved across the country to flee.
My BFF has witness to many incidents and knows He still tries to reach out. I am not sure what he would do if he actually saw me. Am I the a**hole for not going to her wedding?”
And here’s what Reddit users had to say about this story.
This reader doesn’t think this woman is wrong at all for feeling this way.
Another Reddit user said that the friend who is getting married is clearly not even living in reality.
This person said that stalkers are known for being persistent and this Kevin fella sounds like he’s manipulating this situation.
Lastly, this person said that the woman’s “best friend” is clearing not grasping the situation and this has been going on for far too long.
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