If you’re not too familiar with Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page, let me fill you in…
People share very personal and very dramatic stories about things in their lives that are bothering them…and they also feel like they might to blame for these situations…
And here’s another one!
Read on to see what went down!
AITA for choosing my stepmom over my biological mom?
“I am 24F and I just bought a new house. My dad and stepmom contributed too for the house and it looks perfect.
My mom left me and my dad when I was 5 because my dad couldn’t earn much. A year later he remarried to my stepmom (J). She wasn’t what I thought stepmoms would be. She was kind and really talented. I don’t have other siblings or stepsister. She basically raised me as her own daughter.
She helped through everything (financially too).My biological mom (K) came for me when I was 16. I had grown a hatred for her as she abandoned me. She still was invited to events like my birthday or Christmas. She has a stepdaughter few years younger than me.
So when I bought a new house I expected my stepmom to move in with me as it was closer to the hospital she has to go every 3 months(Diabetes). Before I could move in my mom asked me how many rooms were there. I told her how many were there and she said she and her stepdaughter would move in a week later to CHOOSE the rooms.
I told her no as J was moving in with me and it caused a big argument between us. She included J and my dad and said how J brain washed me and created chaos between a mother and daughter. She yelled at me for being raised pathetically and “I gave birth to you so you owe me a lot”. Her stepdaughter called me said I was being a bi*ch for not giving her a place to stay.
J and I moved in 3 days ago but we still get calls from them telling me to kick J out or K won’t see me again. I don’t think I am but am I the AH?”
And here’s what Reddit users said about this.
One reader said that this woman is NTA and her biological mom sounds pretty weird.
Another Reddit user said that it’s pretty clear who the “real” mother is in this story.
And this individual said that this woman’s mother sounds like a disgusting person.
Sometimes, the truth hurts…
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