Guys and gals: I want you to pay attention to what you’re about to read.
Because we can all use all the help we can get when it comes to noticing red flags!
So keep these in mind for the future!
“The worst part is that they make YOU feel like the one who’s going crazy.
Gaslighting is often thrown around as a buzzword these days, but experiencing the real thing can be extremely damaging psychologically.”
“When they tell a story that they think makes them look good but they’re clearly the bad guy in it and they don’t realize.”
3. Not good.
“When interests and life goals turned out to be 100% the same as yours after you have shared yours.
Or changes as you talk about what is important to you.”
Everyone has a tiny bit or none at all.
But people who are really jealous will make your life hell.”
“Not accepting the word “no” well.
“If they can’t handle themselves when you’re not available.
What I mean by that is if you want to go do something alone, and they take that as a personal insult and badger you the entire time you’re doing it.
You both MUST be cool with having your own time/space/hobbies without the other one freaking out about it.”
“When you are the only one who is always giving in the relationship without it being reciprocated leaving you to feel constantly drained.
Just to be clear, it is not the other person’s job to make you feel good, but relationships are about balance. When you are the only one doing the work, time for you to work on yourself.”
8. Break it off.
“There comes a point from my experience, where your relationship can’t actually progress if they’re not putting in the required effort.
If that’s the case, then time to break it off, as if it’s not progressing it’s either stalling in an endless limbo, or regressing which is even worse.
Also shows a sheer lack of care, and that in itself can be soul destroying.”
9. The laundry list.
nothing is their fault
rude to people
making you feel bad because they want something
expecting you to know what the issue is without communicating
not listening to your needs
falling out with friends/family a lot
unable to manage their money
thinking people are always out to get them.”
10. Never wrong.
“They cannot accept they were wrong about something.
My BF has a buddy that cannot stop trying to argue his point, and when he is shown evidence, he tries to flip the script and say that was what he was trying to say all along.”
“If you catch them lying about dumb things early on, they will lie about everything down the road, you can be sure of it.”
12. Bad sign.
“Only being respectful to women he finds attractive. Other women are treated badly or he is overly rude to them.
The way he treats the women he wants nothing from is his true character. Everything else is a facade to get what they want.”
13. This one!
“How poorly they treat animals.
If that’s how they treat small, not dangerous creatures, how do you think they’re gonna treat you.”
“When none of their friends seem to call them on their bulls**t.
They’re surrounded by yes men/women.”
15. Difficult people.
“At least from my own experience, if someone ignores your boundaries, it indicates a deeper problem with that person.
All the difficult people I’ve met had this. Either they didn’t care about what I want, or thought they knew what’s better for me than myself.”
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