As a man who is attracted to women, I have to say that my biggest turn-off is when women get into screaming matches and fights with other women…or they start them with men and then expect another guy to step in.

I know that’s kind of specific, but I’ve seen it enough times that it left a mark on me and I just think it’s so trashy and unnecessary.

And that’s what I have to say about that!

Men, what are your biggest turn-offs when it comes to women?

Fellas on AskReddit shared their thoughts.

1. Come on now…

“Mind games of any kind.

Like come on now, we’re almost 30 years old.”

2. Back at ya.

“Using my emotions against me.

Even more so if I vent to them and they use that as an ammo to hurt me later on.”

3. Gross.

“Doing something wrong & then playing the victim.

“I cheated on you because you didn’t gave me enough attention.”

My homie’s ex literally said this to him and that he should get over it.”

4. Just own it.

“Not own up to their own poor behaviors/mistakes.

We’re all flawed. We all screw up. I can listen, learn, and own my s**t.

If you can’t, I’ve got no interest in being around you.”

5. Just be decent.

“Be an indecent human being, being just rude, disrespectful and not treating people like normal human beings.”

6. Pretty common.

“Talk s**t about you to her friends.

More common than you would think.”

7. Over here!

“Being on her phone too often, especially during inappropriate occasions like dinner dates.”

8. Yuck.

“Being completely obsessed about the amount of followers they want to accrue and likewise getting extremely pi**ed off when someone unfollows them.”

9. Trashy.


One of my exes would throw garbage out of the car window. I was like where do you think that goes?!?

She only did it twice before I just locked her window.”

10. Sounds like a catch!

“Calling me pathetic after making a joke to try and make her laugh.

Was me being goofy, the joke was making fun of myself something I do a lot and she was aware these were jokes.”

11. All you need to know.

“Being rude to wait staff or retail workers.

Tells me (almost) everything I need to know.”

12. Time to go.

“Thinking it’s somehow making them more attractive to constantly insult and belittle their partner.

Even earlier turn off, playing hard to get. If you say no and expect me to chase you, then whatever made you attractive is going to vanish.

If someone says no, I accept it, I’m not gonna keep going after you, so don’t get mad that I’m accepting a rejection.”

What are your biggest turn-offs?

Let us know what you think in the comments.

We look forward to it!