You got what you deserved!
No one ever wants to hear that, do they?
And it’s especially harsh when it comes from a friend…
And that’s the dilemma this person is facing on the “Am I the A**hole?” page on Reddit.
Take a look at what they had to say.
AITA for telling my friend that he got exactly what he wanted and he needs to stop being selfish?
“I have an old college friend Nick(32m), he has a fiancee Sophie(24f).
They’ve been together 3 years and Nick has repeatedly suggested an open relationship to which Sophie has refused. Until a few months ago when he said he’d only propose if she agreed to try an open relationship. She agreed. I said to him at the time that he was an a** for it and he said he was just “acting in his best interests”.
Now Nick wanted an open relationship so he could see Anna(29f) a girl we knew from college who he always had a thing for but she was married from when she was 18-26 so he never had a chance till recently. He hasn’t had a chance to see her yet because she had been living with her sick mum and they can’t afford to rent a hotel room.
Now the issue is that Nick showed up at my house last weekend with a suitcase absolutely livid and asked to crash on my couch. He said Sophie had gone out to dinner and had s** with a male model and that she was cheating because he hadn’t had the chance to see Anna and it was unfair for her to see someone so much hotter than Anna(not that Anna isn’t attractive).
I basically laughed at him and told him this is exactly what was going to happen and that he was being selfish expecting Sophie not to see anyone or to see people less attractive than her(she’s very attractive and I don’t know why she’s with Nick tbh).
He went off on me for not being supportive and stormed out and is trying to turn our friend group against me fir not supporting him.
I’ve taken a few days to think about it but I still can’t decide, am I TA?”
Here’s what Reddit users had to say about this.
One reader said that what goes around comes around…
Another individual said that this is usually what happens in these kinds of situations.
This Reddit user talked about her own experience in this department.
And this person said what’s the point in getting engaged if you want to sleep around?
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