What’s up with all the demands people are making for their weddings?
Cut your hair. Dye your hair. Lose some weight.
It never ends!
And this woman wants to know if she’s an a**hole for refusing to dye her hair for a wedding.
Read on to see what happened.
AITA for refusing my future sister-in-law’s request to dye my hair for my brother’s wedding?
“My future SIL Liz has turned into a bridezilla and is going to war with everyone over every stupid thing.
My natural color is red. I love my hair. Liz is a blonde but she loves to have red hair and in fact ever since meeting me she’s been dying her hair almost exactly my color. I don’t mind, I think it’s weird that she does it but I don’t have a monopoly over this particular shade of red and she’s free to do with her hair whatever she wants.
Well, she asked me this week that I should dye my hair to a different color because she wants her hair to be unique in her wedding, she offered to cover all the costs as well. I just said no because it’s my hair, I don’t want it changed.
I told my brother and he told me to do whatever I want because it’s my hair, he said he’ll talk to Liz to get her to back off. Well it didn’t work because Liz has come to my parents and they’ve taken her side! They say it’s her special day and we need to be more accomodating and it’s important for our future relationship that we get along. I believe I am accomodating, she can do whatever she wants with her own hair! How is my hair any of her business anyway.
My parents tell me that I should be the bigger person. I don’t know why an 18 year old should be the bigger person compared to the 27 year old Liz. They told me I’m making this minor issue into a big problem and I should just do what she wants because it’s her wedding.
AITA for not giving in?”
Check out how Reddit users reacted.
One reader said she’s NTA and that this is a lot to ask.
Another Reddit user said she could offer to wear a wig to please her brother.
And this individual shared an anecdote from her own wedding.
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